If you suspect that your batting average in communications falls well below
1.000, here are some tips that may help you.
Empathy. Before you communicate something, try putting yourself in the listeners
shoes. How is he likely to react to your message and what precautions can you
take to ensure that he understands it in the way you mean it? For example, you
tell John Smith that he is wanted in the front office. His initial reaction
may be, Im going to be raked over the coals by the boss. If
this isnt the case, you should make that fact clear to him.
There is frequently a wide gap between the managers experience and that
of the employee. Your job: bridge it.
Timing. If employees get the wrong impression from a communication, it may
be virtually impossible to eradicate iteven with facts. The answer is
to get the facts across before rumor or misunderstanding can distort your meaning.
Credibility. Your words wont carry much weight with workers if theyre
skeptical of your sincerity in the first place. Your actions must support what
you say. And should something happen that contradicts what youve told
them, you owe them a full explanation.
Simplicity. This is particularly important in written communications. Whether
you are writing a memo, bulletin board announcement, letter for general circulation
or directive, put it in the simplest, most direct language you know.
Repetition often helps make a message stick in the mind. This is especially
true of complicated or unfamiliar instructions. If a person misunderstands what
you have said the first time, chances are he or she will catch on the second
or third time around.
Novelty. On the other hand, sometimes it pays to avoid repetition and instead
seek new ways of saying things. Overly familiar phrases will be ignored by your
people since they will believe theyve heard it all before. As one worker
said, As soon as I hear the boss say that hes counting on us, I
tune him out. It might not be a bad idea to review your own favorite phrases
and expressions occasionally and replace them with fresh variations. Youll
stand a far better chance of gaining the attention of your listeners.
Of course, there are other factors involved in communicating effectively, but
if you take the above to heart, you should find your batting average improving
appreciably.
What Motivates People?
Some people appear not to need outside motivation to do their best. Drawing
from some inner need to excel, they show initiative and require no prodding
from anyone. Others must have a continuous bonfire under them to keep them moving.
The vast majority falls somewhere between these two extremes.
There is no simple formula for motivating people for the simple reason that
no two people are exactly alike. But there are some very widespread human desires
along with the typical incentives that satisfy them. One or more of these may
help you provide just the impetus that one of your own people needs.
Security. Guaranteed compensation, health insurance, retirement plan, assurance
of steady employment.
Feeling of usefulness. Defined area of responsibility; idea of where employee
fits in the big picture.
Social approval. Participation in company plans; friendly relations with management;
internal social activities like clubs and athletic teams.
Ego fulfillment. Credit for a good performance; praise when merited; managers
who will listen to grievances; receptiveness to ideas; respect for intelligence;
recognition.
Competitive success. Awards; prizes; name in internal publications.
Advancement. Promotions, salary increases, better jobs; more authority.
Growth and development. Training aids to help self-training; on-the-job library
facilities; company sponsored courses; scholarships; tuition refunds.
Avoid Stilted Speeches
One reason why some speeches sound so stiff and unnatural is that the speaker
has used writers words instead of his or her speaking vocabulary.
The ear is used to one kind of vocabulary; the eye, to another. Dont mix
them up. Here are some public speaking pointers:
1. When speaking, stick to spoken words.
2. Use simple words to help the audience understand. Dont use annually;
use every year. Dont use daily; use every day.
3. Remember: you cant spell out every long word. Your listeners must understand
it as you say it.
4. Avoid adjectivesparticularly multisyllabic or hyphenated ones.
5. Avoid negative words. The brain plays strange tricks with them. Say it positively.
6. Bear in mind that the audience must hear and understand in the time it takes
you to say the word.
Toward Improved Listening
Many people throw in the towel at the first sign that an oral message will take
some effort to understand. Others are the victims of persistent daydreaming.
Still others allow themselves to be easily distracted.
In every case, the remedy is the same: concentrate.
How can you strengthen your powers of concentration? By nipping in the bud
the three attention robbers most often responsible for lackadaisical listening:
Fatigue. Some years ago, New York disc jockey Peter Tripp went without sleep
for more than 200 hours. During his ordeal, doctors and technicians put him
through exhaustive tests to pinpoint the precise effects of fatigue. Among other
things, his ability to understand oral instructions deteriorated rapidly. This
was expected, for listening is not a passive affair. It requires effort to get
every point a speaker is making, all the while relating his comments to known
facts and logic. Good listening takes energy. If youre tired, you cant
possibly listen on all cylinders. So be sure you get enough rest.
Lack of incentive. Frequently, we dont listen because we arent
sold on the importance of the subject. Its natural to be most interested
in things that affect our health, fortune, security and family. Take advantage
of this built-in selfishness by bringing a Whats-in-it-for-me?
attitude to everything you hear.
Insufficient practice. The more listening you do, the better you become at
it. So purposely expose yourself to hard listening. Attend lectures,
presentations and the like; listen to radio and TV interviews. Sunday mornings
are particularly rich in thought-provoking panel shows. Tune them in and listen.
The further removed the topic is from your own interests, the more challengingand
effectiveyour practice sessions will be.